Discerning Religious Life through Signposts
People may resort to looking for signs when faced with difficult decisions and crossroads in life. With respect to religious life we might ask, “Does God send signs for those discerning a call to religious life.” In Advent we often hear about signs pointing to the Messiah revealing God’s saving plan. In Isaiah 14: 7 we hear, "Therefore the Lord Himself will give you a sign: Behold, a virgin will be with child and bear a son, and she will call His name Immanuel.” Isaiah situated himself in prayerful discernment to search out God’s saving plan. For sure, God’s will was communicated to the prophet and became a sure sign of hope for God’s people.
But are there tangible signs for those discerning a call to religious life? The truth of the matter is that God communicates to us in a variety of ways: scripture, sacraments, relationships, and the everyday experiences of life. To discern a call to religious life it requires the prayerful discipline exercised by Isaiah. This requires that we take a long loving look at life, open ourselves to the guidance and wisdom of the Holy Spirit, and read the signs in everyday life. Colleen Therese Smith, a sister with the Apostles of the Sacred Heart, writes in “Vision 2014” about five “signposts” to discern a call to religious life. I will write on this theme as a series in the upcoming weeks.
The first signpost is that peace comes through a disciplined approach to discernment. The Ignatian spiritual exercises are a means to discern a vocation by growing in accord with God’s will and life. In no. 23 of the exercises, Ignatius says: “I want and I choose what better leads to God’s deepening life in me.” The Ignatian way to God is a disciplined spiritual inner journey. While it has moments of struggle, the journey eventually leads to peace and consolation.
Mary, the mother of God struggled and wrestled with God’s will in the Annunciation. The angel Gabriel told her that God’s favor rested on her and that she would be the Christ bearer. This news was incomprehensible to Mary since she was a virgin, yet surrendering herself to God; she was transformed with peace. She became a messenger of this peace by visiting her cousin Elizabeth and sharing her news (Luke 1:39-45).
In a previous article, I mentioned the story of a religious sister who felt troubled with the promptings of the Spirit to follow a call to religious life. She wrestled with the call because she had no idea on how to relate or understand religious life—it was a lifestyle far removed from her. But once she surrendered herself to God’s will through an act of faith (an expression of love), she too experienced a peace she had never before known. This peace has remained with her through life, the peace is Jesus.